This is not how to handle the conceited people, but how to handle yourself when you’re around with the usually empty headed high and mighty human beings.

I used to live in a dormitory room which I shared with three other guys. One of my roommates could not stand a minute with my other roommate. I noticed myself that I no longer react negatively the way I used to.

Here are the “tips” I use when am with the self-centered ones.

You are conceited yourself. Don’t wield around the selfish mindset that you are too righteous and don’t have a slightest hint of egoistic attitude.

Do you know why you feel vomiting when you’re with an egoistic person? It is because that egoistic person has beaten you with his own bragging rights.

Be considerate. That conceited person could have come from a troubled family. Probably, he or she has done many good things, but overlooked and unappreciated by those around him or her.

Generally, being able to control yourself will able you to choose your destiny.

I am guilty. I am self-righteous. I figuratively pointed a finger on the girl who hurt me, “You good for nothing whore!”. I was the victim, and she the unforgivable sinner, or so i thought.

I hurt my past girlfriends too.

The homosexuals accusing the Christians of being hypocrites. While some superficially pious and condemning Christians hurled words of doom on the homosexuals.

When a homosexual commits a crime rarely you would read or hear it in the news. But when a minister does one mistake, the whole accusing volcano erupts endlessly.

Terrorists try to passionately fulfill their vengeance on the perpetrators who killed their comrades or biological brothers. What?!

Let us think before we lash out someone. Think, zip our lips. Lash out unless it’s really necessary.

There are two reasons why people are poor, first is because of circumstances beyond their control and secondly is people are not doing enough.

Women are reputation worry freaks.

I don’t know why they’re like this. Probably they fear rejection if something happens about that stains their reputation.

Practically all of them are reputation worry freaks. Men you better watch out especially if you have an intimate relationship with a woman you have little knowledge about her background.

Women like to appear demure and reserved in public.

According to my meticulous research I found several weapons that women would brandish when their reputation is at stake.

Weapon 1. The mouth. They’re really good at this. Example is when a guy just used this certain woman for fun. This woman will use all the defenses or offenses she could find to protect her reputation. She will by tell all those around her that this guy is blah blah blah.

When weapon number one doesn’t work, she may use the next weapon.

Weapon 2. The Rape Cry. This one is the most dangerous and money depleting situation a guy could ever face.

A handsome classmate of mine back in high school was reported to have raped a certain minx. It started when the girl who the guy didn’t like kept on flirting with him, so to appease the irritating flirt the guy kissed the girl. Then a friend photographed both of them kissing, although the camera didn’t have a film inside. That girl was so worried that the photo might be spread around town. She went to the police to report that she was raped.

A pastor was also in this comparable situation. When he realized the sin he was doing, he started to avoid the woman he had a sexual relationship with. This woman cried rape telling everyone in their religious group that she was raped.

There are many similar of this false rape reports that’s going on around. One of which is Nikki’s rape by Mr. Smith.

Sorry, but I don’t believe you Nikki.

Don’t believe all the news report about rape, most of them aren’t true.

I admire those few brave women who just swallow the bitter pill which is the consequence of their own action and just move on.

*This is just an opinion.

A Caucasian American Christian missionary for Assemblies of God was assigned to start a church someplace in Iligan City in Mindanao. This missionary had some obvious racist’s antics towards the locals there. One of which was he didn’t want any Filipinos to set foot inside their home, everyone except for one brown, Filipino pastor.

This pastor is intelligent, hardworking. He speaks decent English. He wanted to be a lawyer, but shifted to the Bible school when the calling to become a pastor just kept on bugging him. These things are probably one of the reasons why that American missionary liked him. He was my pastor while I was in Cebu.

In one of their normal chitchats, this Filipino pastor was eating a banana. Then the American missionary turned to him and said, “Oh, look the brown monkey is eating a banana!” Then the Filipino pastor replied in jest, “White monkeys eat bananas too!” The racist pastor with a blank face obviously was taken aback after he heard that reply.

The Filipino pastor meant it for plain fun, but that American missionary intended it as a racial joke.

So if you’re an Asian, African or whatever you are, do away with that “victim mentality” and stop saying “That’s totally uncalled for!”

If you look closely at the skins of the Caucasians, you will see that it’s really dirty and their armpits smell bad too!

Don’t take the last comment seriously, because my armpit smells like a dead rat.

Evil begets evil. Racism begets racism.

After i saw the picture of Pearson, a US judge who sued the Korean American owners of a laundry shop Custom Cleaners for $64 Million over a lost pair of pants, it instantly confirmed the comment of my Filipino friend about African Americans.Thankfully, Pearson lost his battle to earn that millions of dollars.

My friend works as a programmer for a popular watch company in the US. He has had first hand experiences of unfavorable things done by African Americans.

My friend’s car door got dented when another car owned by a black person parked beside his. The other person purposely opened his car door with force and wide that it hit the door of my friend’s car.

Although, this friend of mine told me that a few of them are really good, but generally they’re unfriendly toward Asians.

Probably African Americans are envious of Asians’ for being generally doing good financially? I could be wrong though.

This write-up could also relate to people from countries occupied by the major colonizing countries such as United States, France, and England etc.

I based this article from a preaching I heard in church last Sunday. The topic was basically about changing your way of thinking. Even a spiritually free person has to work his way to change his thinking that he is indeed free.

An example is the Israelites, even after Moses delivered them from slavery out of Egypt, God had to test

and teach them to change their minds. If only the Israelites were teachable enough, they could have reached the Promise Land in less than two months. But it took 40 years, and only two of those original millions of Israelites reached the land of milk and honey.God won’t allow the Israelites to set foot on the promise land if they still have the oppressed mindset inflicted on by the Egyptians.

Similarly, for 300 years the Filipinos had been under Spanish colonial rule. Then United States took over for another 50 years.

Skin White and Block and White
The arrogant white Spaniards and Americans have successfully managed to setup their dominance over the brown native people on all areas. Consequentially, Filipinos (or Africans) thought that having a dark skin is inferior to the white skin.

No wonder, Skin White and Block and White are selling like hotcakes!

Overdone Hospitality
As a kid it irritated me when my mother displayed those “special” cooking utensils, plates, spoons and glasses in the glassed cabinet, and can only be used in “special” occasions and for the “special” guests. We had to be contented in using those ugly plates and spoons.

The slaves use the ugly plates and spoons.

Premier Accent and the Inferior Accent
Filipinos have this wrong thinking that having an American or British accent is superior while any local accent is inferior.

This is another slave state of mind.

Continually, be free!